I’m feeling confused at your perspective, here — she didn’t try to get his money. She didn’t even try to get a second date. I’m trying to point out the problems with how we understand the word “victim” and how we oversimplify sexual assault and coercion, how we generalize these experiences. I’m asking that we stop generalizing and instead look at larger forces — past the individuals — in order to effectively move forward. The arguments you’ve raised are rooted in generalizations about women. I am advocating for looking at our cultural dynamics that contribute to these problems, while your position seems to be that there isn’t a problem, because women aren’t actually being violated.

Thus, I’m not sure this conversation can be productive anymore because you don’t believe there is a problem that faces these women. You believe men to be the victims of these women, which isn’t a stance I can get behind. I believe that men are indeed victims, but of a system that shows them they are entitled to sex.

But of their “false” accusers? Certainly not.